{"id":3555,"date":"2012-07-06T11:00:32","date_gmt":"2012-07-06T16:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.confabulatorcafe.com\/?p=3555"},"modified":"2012-07-06T11:00:32","modified_gmt":"2012-07-06T16:00:32","slug":"make-choices-not-excuses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.confabulatorcafe.com\/?p=3555","title":{"rendered":"Writer&#8217;s Block Is a Choice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like there&#8217;s two brands of writer&#8217;s block: there&#8217;s &#8220;My muse has not graced me with her presence,&#8221; and there&#8217;s, &#8220;I have no ideas.&#8221; Maybe there are more, but we&#8217;re going to focus on these two.<\/p>\n<p>The short version is: I think both are a bit BS.<\/p>\n<p>I can understand factors in every day life that take up mental energy. Sometimes my space is cluttered and dirty, and I can&#8217;t focus. I can understand being busy and distracted.<sup>1<\/sup> I can understand needing a break from the process. I can even understand staring at a story and being like, &#8220;This story is impossible. I need to work on something else today.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The choice not to write is valid; you can decide today is a day that you need to preserve your energy for other tasks, or spend time with your family. But to then say, &#8220;Oh, I <em>would<\/em> write today, but you know &#8212; writer&#8217;s block,&#8221; is bullshit. It&#8217;s an excuse that you&#8217;re painting as a reason.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Oh sing to me, my beloved muse!<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3556\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3556\" style=\"width: 175px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.confabulatorcafe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/salmahayekmuse.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3556\" src=\"http:\/\/www.confabulatorcafe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/salmahayekmuse.jpg\" alt=\"Salma Hayek as the muse from Dogma\" width=\"175\" height=\"167\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3556\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Your muse is judging you.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Let me be honest &#8212; I effin&#8217; hate muses. I hate the very idea. I know it&#8217;s mean and exclusionary and I&#8217;m <em>sorry<\/em>, honestly. But the very idea makes me want to toss every muse into a mass grave and mark it with a big billboard: DEAR WRITERS: YOU ARE THE MASTERS OF YOUR OWN CREATION.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t understand why any writer would want to take the beautiful moments of inspiration and hand credit off to some ethereal babe in a toga. Having an idea is the best part of being a writer. I understand why people like to pass credit off to a higher power. Sometimes you&#8217;re staring at this idea and you&#8217;re like, &#8220;What is this even? How did I come up with this?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The side effect is, of course, the classic, &#8220;I can&#8217;t write today; the <em>mu~se<\/em> isn&#8217;t with me.&#8221; It makes writers look like super special snowflakes who can&#8217;t be bothered to handle their own lives. I once read a blog post from a Certain Professional Author who talked about missing a deadline because their muses and characters weren&#8217;t speaking to them. <\/p>\n<p>Cue epic eye roll.<\/p>\n<p>I appreciate, at least, the egalitarian nature of writers who ascribe to a muse &#8212; while they pass off the blame for not writing, at least they&#8217;re also passing off the credit for a great idea. <\/p>\n<p><strong>This story is stuck.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This feels like the more logical version of the muse issue. Or more like, it&#8217;s the same root problem of, &#8220;What the hell am I writing?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve written myself into a corner before. I&#8217;m pretty sure that if you don&#8217;t write yourself into the corner at least once per novel, then you&#8217;re either more organized than me (extremely possible), or you&#8217;re making too many easy decisions for your characters. <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to get out of those corners. The worst thing for me if to have to skip the ending of a scene and come back to it. Through the course of Camp NaNo in June, I had to choose to do this with two scenes and it makes me irrationally angry. <\/p>\n<p>But I had two options: continue falling behind because I couldn&#8217;t think of how to transition into the next scene, or leave a note to come back to it while editing, when I had a clearer understanding of my story and could focus on it more thoroughly.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t terribly like doing that, but sitting around and waiting for the idea to strike isn&#8217;t an option when you&#8217;re trying to hammer out 50K in a month. And thanks to being a habitual NaNo writer, I no longer think that sitting around and waiting for the right idea is a very logical method of writing in the long term. <\/p>\n<p>What it comes down to, for me, is that <strong>I can choose not to write, or I can choose to write through the shitty parts.<\/strong> There&#8217;s a reason we have to do more than one draft to write a solid story.<\/p>\n<p>Calling it writer&#8217;s block, to me, is just a way of adding ~*mystique*~ to the creative process, while try to validate why you chose not to write today.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><strong>1.<\/strong> I have a kid and a cat and I work at home; some days having ten minutes of uninterrupted thought is a miracle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like there&#8217;s two brands of writer&#8217;s block: there&#8217;s &#8220;My muse has not graced me with her presence,&#8221; and there&#8217;s, &#8220;I have no ideas.&#8221; Maybe there are more, but we&#8217;re going to focus on these two. 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